When in dating, what should we women keep in mind to avoid a disaster and save our sanity? Having gained some experience from studying so many friends around, let’s see if I can sum up the characteristic traits and jot down a list of guys we should avoid dating. If we get the list, we can save our valuable time and emotions.
1)Mr.I KnowAll : He is the type of guy who is filled up with huge male ego and whom you can’t beat in anything. He seems to know everything about everything. And if you dare to excel in anything, do not dare to prove it. These relationships usually end up in disasters until and unless you decided to be totally submissive. Even if you are submissive by nature, there has to be a limit. Who loves to stay with a guy who doesn’t make you feel good about yourself?
2)TheCheatingGuy: If he has cheated once, take it from me in written, he’ll cheat again. All he is waiting for is the perfect opportunity. You will always feel very insecure with this type of guy and if he is not around, even if he is doing some official work, your mind will keep on wondering if he is with some girl. Just avoid these types of guys or dump them straightaway. Who doesn’t want a peace of mind?
3)TheNaggingGuy: There are these guys who will always complain and nag about everything around. The food is not good, the place is so populated, the boss is bad, the ex was horrible, his friends ditched him,…………….. just pick up your bag and run before you become one of his nagging subjects.
4)TheSuperActiveGuy: Then there are these super energetic adventurous active guy who makes you wake up at 5 am in the morning and run with him or plan dates at weird timings and who is always so active and running. Beware, before you know you would be already running to keep up pace with him and exhausted.
5)TheSmellyMessyGuy: It’s good to take care of your guy but it’s not good to be the mother of a fully grown up guy. You are his girlfriend not his housekeeper. It is next to impossible to make him take a daily shower and make him wear clean clothes. Not to forget, you are the one who’ll need to take care of his house………..oh how can I forget a guy’s bathroom………….yuuuuuckss!!!
6)TheOverPosessiveGuy: He’ll make your life hell and will make sure that you cut off from rest of the world. He’ll be keeping an eye on you and keep monitoring your behavior. Forget all your male friends, even long conversations with female friends can raise a suspicion.
7)TheJustTooPerfectGuy: He is the one whom may seem to be your prince charming but over a long period of time you’ll realize that when they say “to err is human” what do they actually mean. No one wants to date a GOD after all. To do small things non-perfectly seems good at times. At the end of the day, you should also feed needed.
8)TheTooCasualGuy: To be casual is good but to be over casual is good. Ultimately, a girl needs a guy who can take care of her. Not that she’ll be dependent on him but to have an emotional security is always good.
9)TheOverAmbitiousGuy: It is good to be ambitious but excess of anything is bad. It feels good to read about a Nobel Prize winner but nobody wants to date one of them in real life. Basically all they can think of is their career. They will absolutely have no time for you. And if you end up marrying one, you’ll have to take care of the family all alone and will never have enough of him.
10)TheFoodieGuy: It is good to date a guy with whom you don’t have to worry about being very thin but nobody wants to date a restaurant, right? All he is concerned about is food and nothing else. And before you realize, you are spending all your time in kitchen cooking for him. Not only he’ll hamper your fooding habits, he’ll also make you unhealthy.
11)ThePervertGuy: You should just run away from these guys. Initially you may feel that being extra physical is good for a change but slowly you’ll realize that all he can think about is sex…..basically he is a sex maniac. He not only fantasizes about you but about all the females around him including your friends, sister or may be mother. Just pick up your bag and run.
12)TheCoolDude: He is the party animal,the coolest person around .He is like extra cool with everything with his hairdo, his bikes, his parties,………..and as soon as you no longer fit in that cool quotient, you’ll be dumped.
At the end of the list, I think I have possibly defined every kind of guy who has ever walked the surface of the earth and left no one who can be date worthy :P Its true that men are from Mars and women are from Venus :P :P
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